Distinguishing between grandiose narcissism, vulnerable narcissism, and narcissistic personality disorder. Lets say you finally managed to find a time that works for her and you get to hang out. This may be to achieve a sense of emotional intimacy or security. Should you go no contact? I made her the most important thing in my life and as soon as a woman gets a whiff of being a nice guy you are done. Its all online and you can do it yourself, at first, you dont necessarily need to bring your girlfriend into it. Why do people with narcissistic personality disorder play games? My advice here is to talk to her without being accusing simply ask her what is going on. Research has found that planning for the future, known as proactive coping, can help improve resilience. Before I end this article, I need to tell you one last thing. All rights reserved. If she agreed with everything you said on the first date, would you find her interesting? When a dating prospect is uncertain and not yet invested, it helps to be more direct and engaging to increase liking and build commitment. So, if you notice that she is no longer interested in doing the things that you used to do together, then theres a good chance that shes losing interest in you. She has the right; she is not restricted with any boundaries, so it wont make a great deal if she has lost interest in you. On the other hand, if her behavior is immature, she doesnt respect your feelings and she uses playing hard to get as an excuse to be rude, you should move on. Only the jerks will continue his pursue, when a clear "no" has been given. The average amount Britons lose to online scams is 1,169 each - with 7% claiming to have lost more than 7,500 to scammers. Should You Play Hard to Get It can take many forms. And when you want to make yourself feel like a catch, start with the 70 Genius Tricks to Boost Your Confidence. } Make him/her work hard to get your attention. I get it, its one of the most frustrating things in the world to be turned on and then left hanging. Because she thinks that letting you in too soon will turn you off. Put simply, playing hard to get works when your potential partner is already interested and when they think you are "likable" and nice but are not yet passionate about you. They're definitely not unconditional "love muffins.